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1.Don’t be shy. Try to engage people, crack jokes, flirt, make conversations and “be yourself” that’s what “popular people do.
Make a good first impression on everybody you meet Remember you only get one chance to make a first impression.
2.If the person holds out his/her hand to shake, be sure your grip is firm and strong
3.Make eye contact
4.Smile!
5.Make sure you have good hygiene.
6.Good posture is important.
7.All ears. Pay attention to what the other person is saying
8.Speak clearly
9.Be friendly :
Talk to anyone and everyone who crosses your path. Smile, say hello.
Become friends with the 'popular' people.
10.Be polite :
Respect people's privacy; don't pry. Make them feel uncomfortable and don't be annoying.
11.Give a helping hand:
Popular people don't just know everyone--they're on good terms with everyone. Do little things to establish rapport. Here are some phrases that we'll often hear popular people saying:
12."Well, I hope things work out. If you need anything, just call me, OK?"
13."Yeah! I definitely want to go check that out. Do you want to go there together? We can split the gas
• that way."
14.Don't try too hard:
Being popular is as much a state of mind as anything else. If people see you trying too hard to be popular, they will usually dismiss your efforts
15.Be yourself:
Be attractive and talented, Nobody likes when you act like someone else.
Dress like you mean it:
Being popular is being dressed like you mean it.
16.Be Confident:
Everyone has some flaws. Don't let that stop you! Even if you feel that you just aren't good, keep believing. Love yourself and believe in yourself. Don't sit in the corner. Get up, and get into the spotlight. Don't worry too much about yourself. Get some courage! Stop thinking you are ugly or that you aren't cool enough. Everyone is either beautiful on the inside, outside, or both.
Change is good:
17.Notice that there's many ways to change. You could change your dressing style, or become outgoing instead of shy, but NEVER change something big like your morals just to be popular. Change something about you that everyone will notice.
18.Listen more than you talk. .
Be confident! .
Don't be stupid. Be empathetic.
19.To be popular, you’ll have to smile, start conversations, and relate to people at their own level. .
20.Make sure you're always feeling and smelling great.
Seek opportunities to socialize .
21.Develop relationships:
As you begin to meet people, don’t just treat them as items on a checklist. Find out what they like to do, their interests, and learn about But Never dump your old friends for the popular crowd hem as people.
Admit that you have flaws:
22.Once you do that try to fix those. Laugh at yourself.
“Hey, nobody's perfect!”
Be nice:
23.If you're nice, more and more people will like you and don't act like your better than anyone
24.Have self respect:
People respect others if they respect themselves.Be cool always.
If somebody hurts your feelings, JUST IGNORE THEM.
25.ALWAYS be nice and try not to gossip because it could lead to arguments with your friends!!
26.Be just a little bit mysterious. Don't tell your friends all of your secrets. Develop a weird and ,/i>
27.bscure hobby. This will keep you from becoming boring.
"Being popular shows if you have what it takes to appeal to everyone else in society. But when society decides that you aren't cool anymore...then what? Don't spend all these years of youth trying to be popular but making a change in the world. Then, you can be truly proud of yourself not for just a few years but for the rest of your life. Popularity is great, it's awesome to be liked, but don't let it go to your head, that can ruin your rep and the way people perceive you."
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